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DH is so sweet

misslin20misslin20 member
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*Hope this does not offend anyone, it is religious!"

 I was cleaning out my drawer this morning and found a card he sent to me on Mother's Day. I was spending it with my Mom who lost her Mother in February. On the Saturday before I received a card with a return address from my twins that I lost last year. I was able to name them so this is the return address he put on the card; Jael and Jayden, 924 Golden Street (9-24 is their birth dates), New Jerusalem, HV 7777 He is so sweet!!! The message read:

 

Mom,

Sorry we haven't said we loved you in a while. god keeps us pretty busy up here looking after you. We can never say thank you enough for the belly rubs, prayers, and songs you sang to us. And let's not forget the ice cream!! We will never forget that prayer you prayed that God would always be with us  and that HE would take care of us. Just to let you know HE has. We have a huge house and thousands of friends! I've seen you and Dad's retirement house up here and it's BIG. Love you Mommy.

 

Sincerely,

Jael and Jayden

 

P.S. We can't wait to meet you!

 

How sweet is that?! I remember how wonderful he was when it all happened. He would squeeze on that twin bed at the hospital with me! LOL Post the sweet things your DH has done for you during or since your loss! We are very blessed to have them to lean on!!

Late twin loss at 19 weeks on September 24, 2010. Lincoln Perry, my rainbow baby, born June 15, 2012. You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. Psalms 139:13 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    volleymommyvolleymommy
    Beautiful! My husband promised me after my d & c he promised me no matter when we are due next I could take off 6 months from teaching like I thought I would have with the one I lost.
    DD born 1/28/99 Second BFP 7/23/11 due 4/1/2012 miscarriage 9/2/2011 DNC 9/4/2011 BFP 2/3/2012 due 10/19/2012 mmc discovered 3/30/2012- d&c 4/3/2012 loss was around 9 weeks. Going through rpl testing. Dr. Suspects some type of blood clothing disorder. Current dx- endometrosis stage II and possible PCOS.
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    cwoschkolupcwoschkolup member
    Wow!! I cried reading that. So sweet of your DH.
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    PachitaPachita member
    That is sooo  sweet!  It would've brought me to tears!  Mega points for DH!

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

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    chelseabrimchelseabrim

    Oh My Goodness! That is amazing! I love it :)) And it made me get that sore feeling in the back of your throat like you're gunna cry :)

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    holliekriegelholliekriegel member
    Wow, I'm glad I'm sitting by myself because I started crying instantly at your post.  Thank you for sharing.
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    hopeful16hopeful16 member
    That is so sweet. It made me cry. He's a keeper. :) Thank you for sharing
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    --Helen Keller 

    4 miscarriages: Nov 2009,  Jan 2011, Sept 2011,  Oct 2012
    IVF Round 1:
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    16 Eggs Retrieved -- 15 Fertilized via ICSI -- 10 Blastocysts Biopsied for PGD & PGS -- 2 (male) Blastocysts Remain for Transfer
    5/13/15: FET -- 5/26/15: BFN
    CANCELLED IVF Round 2.

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    misslin20misslin20 member

    imagevolleymommy:
    Beautiful! My husband promised me after my d & c he promised me no matter when we are due next I could take off 6 months from teaching like I thought I would have with the one I lost.

     Wow!! How sweet! :)

    I DID cry! Alot...and I was thinking that I was forgotten on that day you know? People don't see you as a Mother if you don't have a baby in your arms :(

    Late twin loss at 19 weeks on September 24, 2010. Lincoln Perry, my rainbow baby, born June 15, 2012. You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. Psalms 139:13 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    kevinandmonica2011kevinandmonica2011
    This is so beautiful.  Your DH is a very sweet man. 
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    JMarie725JMarie725

    That is so sweet!

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