Me & my husband are having MAJOR problems out of our families & other people for our baby name! We picked Julian but chose to spell it differently, my husband really loves it because he chose it and I love it because its is just charming to me and I love the way my husband looks when he tells people the name and says he picked it! But we are getting very rude feedback the most popular seems to be that it is a sissy name and he will be gay when he grows up and children will pick on him for this name when in my opinion I think it is actually a very normal name! Its even gotten so bad that when I log on my facebook I have several messages from different people with their own baby name list with names that are "similar" I am not the kind of person that will change something just because other people don't like it, I have tried the "please stop", "you can name a baby when you have your own", 'your being rude", etc but these don't seem to deter people and mommy brain has the best of me and I can't think of anything. PLEASE HELP!
**BTW I do not care if anyone thinks that I should stick to the traditional spelling it will not make it difficult nor longer it is a simple change and NO that is not why my & my husbands family hates it so please unless you are leaving something nice to say or a comeback don't post that you think I should leave it alone this all goes back to it being my baby. For everyone else who has posted encouraging things and other things to help me I thank you so much =)