I feel like I spend literally 80% of my day yelling at/bribing/threatening DD1. It seems to be over everything, cleaning up toys, getting ready for bed, eating dinner, getting buckled in the car. It's driving me crazy. We never really needed to do time outs and now she doesn't respond to them. For example I'll tell her to clean up her dollhouse. She'll ignore me and probably get another toy out. I'll take the new toy away and tell her to clean up the dollhouse and she can get the toy back. She'll tell me to go away or she'll throw a screaming crying fit. It can take a full 45 minutes of me staying within arms length of her to get the dollhouse cleaned up and with a 1 year to watch (plus I babysit a 4 month old), I don't have that kind of time. If DD2 is being laid back and I can focus on just DD1, it is literally a back to back thing and I am exhausted by lunchtime. Like I said, I can threaten to take away the toy or no outside time or early bedtime or I can try to bribe with candy or ice cream and nothing is getting any response. I'm going crazy here. My DH comes home from work and within 2 hours he is tired of being here because we are constantly yelling at DD. Help?