Never again am I spending a weekend with my IL.Never again am I traveling with a baby under the age of one. I felt so helpless when she was crying on the plane. We live on O'ahu & had to fly out to the island of Hawaii for my brother-in-law's wedding. I didn't want DD to go over with DH because she's young but he insisted because his family hasn't seen her. So, I went with them this weekend & I'm glad I did because if I didn't...she would have been more miserable than she was. While we stayed with his family, DD was so confused & a little afraid of all these people coming up to her wanting to pick her up. And when they would take her from me, she would scream [she's really attached to me] & all they would do was laugh at her. It upset me a lot because they weren't understanding & didn't comfort her. Besides just laughing at her while she cried...they'd also call her spoiled. She's not spoiled....she's just confused & afraid. Ugh! Sorry if this is a ramble.I just needed to get this off my chest.