I am so stressed out. My husbands biological mother is coming up from Texas to spend a week with us after the baby is here. I am 38 weeks pregnant and getting induced in 6 days and im so tired of her calling three times a day checking in on me when i don't even know her. I have only met her three times and each time she was rude towards me, but now that i'm going to have her first grandchild she suddenly cares. Kinda creepy and reminds me of Rosemary's Baby or something. My husband doesn't even like her. She shoved him off to his grandma to be raised, treated him like crap, etc. She has only wanted to be part of his life in the last year and has "found god", but i still don't like the idea of her coming here.
My hubby would totally agree with me, but she has been so pushy. She even sent us 200 dollars to buy a stroller and she has bought tons of things... so its hard to just turn her down after she has done those things. There is no way to just tell her not to show her face here because my hubby is too nice and forgives too easily and wants to avoid drama. I want advice on how to deal with her while she is here. My hubby says he will deal with everything and for me to just enjoy baby, but I'm still not happy.
Thankfully my mother lives next door and said if there was any trouble she would storm over and tell her to get the h*** out lol.
Oh, and she wants to be in the delivery room when he is born... like heck she is! I told my DH to keep his family out lol and the nurses will keep people out too. I honestly don't care about his family much because they were so distant from us untill they found out about baby. My mother and my hubby are the only support I need.
I just wonder if anyone is dealing with in-laws that only seem to have an interest when you are going to bear their grandchildren. To me it seems creepy and i'm sick of them telling me I need to walk more, drink more milk, and questioning me on everything I do. Baby is fine! Its 105 degrees outside and my feet are the size of balloons so I don't really want to go on a walk! I could go on and on lol. Share stories so I don't feel alone in this!