So I am being induced tomorrow. I will be 39 weeks and 6 days. Originally DH and I didn't want to do it unless I was past the dute date but we figured it's close enough and it is what works best for us. I don't feel guilty or like i'm hurting the baby by doing it at this time, but I do feel guilty when I tell other people. Does that make sense? lol.
DH and I kinda didn't want to tell anyone and we were going to call and say "it's time." But we felt we should at least tell our parents. We didn't tell them to keep it quiet so i'm sure my whole family knows by now... and we've already had people judging us for it. It is OUR decision. I hate hearing how we are being selfish for not letting mother nature take its course or whatever. I feel like we are making a right deicsion so stop puting thoughts in my head. Starting to feel crappy. ):
Oh and so I don't make a-whole-nother post... for those of you that have been induced or are being induced: when are you letting people know you're there? We figured telling them right away when we go in is too early since things will take a while but my mom wants to know when she should come and for us to call her. Do I just call when contractions get intense, or i'm dialated to a certain point? Only DH will be in the room during delivery but mom wants to be there before (just not right when I get there). Thanks.