Yea...so not happening!
I was talking to her about what to name LO, and of course she hates the name that i love, but idc...me and DH will decide. I love my mother, but she had her kids and named us what she wanted and now its my turn. But my mother is insisting that i let my 21yr old sister pick LOs middle name because Mother let Aunt pick my sister's middle name! Well that was her choice...it went down like this:
(text msg convo)
Me: "Sister did not have a say in DS's name, and she will not with this one"
Mother: "Well she didnt have a say because YOU didnt let her, ya think????????"
Me: "Exactly, Sister will have kids of her own one day and then it will be her turn to name them"
Mother: "Well you better remember how selfish you are being in case you ever want to name her kids, especially since she is your only sister!"
Me: "Oh im sorry, i didnt realize that not letting Sister name the child that me and my husband created, i am carrying, and we will be raising is selfish! Sister lives in massachussetts and will hardly see LO so why is she entitled to anything?!" (i am in florida)
She didnt reply...WTF??? I dont want to name my sisters future kids, they will be HER kids! Next my mother will be asking me to let Sister chose how to go about vaxing DD!
*Note, When my family came down to visit (they live 6hrs away, Sister lives several states away from us all), Sister decided that she was going back to college early instead of visiting with me, DS, and DH...and i owe her something...NO!
Sorry this got so long...just venting