I also posted this in the Baby Names forum. I guess I'm kind of upset at the moment.
We are team green and have picked a boy name and a girl name. The boy name is my favorite boy name and DH's dad's name, but MIL hates the name because DH's dad is her ex-husband. She wants to nickname the boy something that I absolutely hate (using initials - I hate nicknames that are initials).We feel terrible that this is hard on her, and DH wants to pick new names, but I've gotten very attached to the names. I'm also kicking myself for not sticking to my guns and keeping the names a secret. Now DH wants to find out baby's sex to see if this is even going to be an issue. What do I do?