& it amazes me that this first time mom makes all these negative comments on people's post. What the heck?! No one knows everything! This is my third pregnancy, and I by no means know everything about being pregnant. It just pisses me off that people come on here to try and get answers about personal questions, and relate to other moms,and then people have to go and ruin it for them! Get a life! Not everyone can breast feed, an not everyone holds their child 24/7. You are a first time mom, therefore you are going to piss yourself when you realize that no child goes by "the book". So good luck with your expectations!