Since DS was born, DH hasn't done much of anything to help me with the baby, it's a constant fight to get DH to hold him. I get that he works long hours to pay the bills right now, but is it really that hard to just hold him while you lay on the couch and relax from work? I seem to be doing everything myself, all the house work and rasing DS. DH hasn't once gotten up at night to feed or change the baby, and is constant battle to get him to do anything with DS, its actually really sad. If I ask DH to watch the baby so I can shower or something, he just sticks a binky in his mouth and puts him in the swing and goes back to the computer.
Anyone dealing with the same thing or have any ideas on how to deal with this?