My husband called screaming at me and said he never wants to see me again. He told me to get my things and get the fvck out of the house. It took 3 calls later for me to find out why he was on the rampage. Apparently while he was at work and I was at my doctor's appointments today, his dog's chain got tangled up and she couldn't get to her water. He came home to find the dog he's had for 7 years dead from a heat stroke. I put her out there this morning so the blame is all mine. I know DH is just really mad and upset right now but he said some of the most horrible things anyone has ever said to me. I am so upset about everything. I am so sick to my stomach over the dog dying and have been fighting the urge to vomit. She has been like part of the family to us. DH has called me several times just to tell me what a horrible person I am and he hopes that I don't starve our baby when he gets here. He told me he never wants to see me again and he hopes that I can't live with myself for killing his dog.
I don't know what to do. I know he is probably just venting and it will pass but what if he really does mean what he said? I hate to think that he would hold the death of his dog against me forever and let it ruin our marriage. I really think he is just extremely upset and is saying things he doesn't mean. He was just saying 2 nights ago that he doesn't know what he would do if his dog died. She was his "other woman" as he often called her. I know it isn't completely my fault but I still feel responsible. I just dont know what to do. '
No flaming please. I know it is silly but I am distraught.