I have a girl, and this one is a boy. Every time people hear that, they say "Oh, how perfect." And it's always women that say that.
I guess this comment is almost offensive to me. Any child is perfect, and there is no perfect scenario. Why is having a girl and a boy more perfect than having two girls, or two boys?
I don't understand people's focus on gender. I really really don't. All I've ever wanted is healthy babies, because I work at a Children's Hospital, and I see the devastating effects of what a not-healthy baby does to families, and all the challenges the child has to face.
So I will take my "perfect" combination, but any combination would do!