We are due with a "surprise" baby in September. The girl's name is Norah Ann, which is great. However, we really like Ben for a boy. That's great, except my husband really wants to use the middle name James after his step-dad who is wonderful. Ben James is fine, but his first and middle initials would be BJ. We obviously don't plan on calling him by his initials and you don't typically use your first and middle initials alone, right?
Do you think it is mean to give a little boy a name that contain the initials BJ?
I asked family and friends, but they are either too old to really get what I'm talking about or they are being too nice with their answers. I'd rather hear from strangers. =) BE HONEST!
Thank you for your help!