Last week DH and I found out we are expecting. YAY!!! This is something that we have wanted for a very long time. SD knows this and seemed okay with it, since we talked about it a lot, but she has issues with BM because she has other children that are younger and honestly treated better. Anyway BM has convinced SD that she is an only child and this has led to a lot of issues in the last week.
Also BM has commented to me that we are going to have to share SD more. I do not understand what she means since I have her more than her BM does. And BM cannot even stand to have her around for more than a few hours before calling and screaming about how she can't stand her.
But anyways, does anyone have an insight on how to handle this? I know it is very complicated and there is a lot to it, but I am at my whits end with BM and SD's horrible attitude about this.