So I feel like I have to update before I can continue posting and commenting on everyone's things.
it's been a long few days. But I've decided I'm not going anywhere, at least not now. Me and H are going to do some counseling and get into our issues for real. There's alot of, stuff, on our plates and between us and I think it's time we throw everything on the table, work through it, and see where we stand on the other side.
I'm probably being blind by saying this, but I honestly think it's going to be okay. The love is legit, always. And everything else is just that, everything else. I think once we talk about how we feel about our issues and past and work towards our future.
I appreciate all the support and advice I've received on this board. I know alot of people probably think my choice is the wrong choice, I totally get that. And honestly, I appreciate it. I appreciate all the views and opinions because it helps me work through how I really feel about everything and shows me the view from the outside.
I know there's some other ladies working through issues in their relationships, not like mine, but issues none-the-less. I hope everything works out for all of us, either with our husbands or not. I just hope we all end up happy and where we should be.