Trying to Get Pregnant

Game Over...

After a long and tearful discussion, our TTC journey has come to an end.  I was given the wrong test results last Friday in regards to my husband's sperm analysis.  As it turns out, he has a zero sperm count.  My husband and I have talked about it at length and have decided that donor sperm just isn't an option for us so this marks the end of our very short TTC experience. 

I wish all of you the very best of luck and I hope all of you wonderful women get your BFP's very soon.

Thanks again for all of the information.

-- Shannon

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  • awww. I am so sorry to hear this. I want to wish you good luck in the future and getting through this difficult time.
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    I am so sorry! I wish you the best of luck in your life together as husband and wife.

     

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  • i'm so sorry you were given the wrong results and then this news. ::hugs::
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  • I am very sorry to hear about this.  I will definitely keep you in my prayers!
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  • I am so sorry to hear that.  My thoughts are with you.  We are all still here for you if you need to vent.  And remember to stay hopeful, as the universe has some mysterious ways about it sometimes.  GL
  • omg I'm so sorry :( I wish you and your DH the best of luck in your lives together.
  • Awww, I am sorry. That had to be some very tough news to take. I hope you find new ways to enjoy the next chapter. Good luck!
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  • I am so sorry. That's awful that you got the wrong results and then were blindsided by the news. Has YH been to a urologist yet? There may be something they can do for him. Best of luck to you.
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  • That sucks! Are you considering adoption at all? Good luck with whatever you do.
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  • I'm so sorry.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.  I would also recommend seeing a urologist.  Good luck!
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  • I am so very sorry for your news :(

    Is he planning on getting checked to see if there is a blockage or a variocele?

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  • image Mrs.Umm:
    I am so sorry. That's awful that you got the wrong results and then were blindsided by the news. Has YH been to a urologist yet? There may be something they can do for him. Best of luck to you.

    This. There are lots of things they can try to impact his sperm count. A good urologist that specializes in Male Infertilty could really help you.

    GL to you!

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  • Im so sorry to hear this. I wish you and DH the very best in coping with this difficult decision/ time.
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    I am so sorry. That's awful that you got the wrong results and then were blindsided by the news. Has YH been to a urologist yet? There may be something they can do for him. Best of luck to you.

     DH does not have health insurance and we cannot afford the OOP expenses to see a specialist and/or treatments.  We will look into this in the future if he happens to change jobs and gets insurance coverage.

    Thanks for everyone's kind words.

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  • Im so sorry to hear this. I hope you can explore other options together, and gl on whatever you guys decide
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  • I'm really sorry. I will keep you and your husband in my prayers. Take Care!
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  • image Mrs.Umm:
    I am so sorry. That's awful that you got the wrong results and then were blindsided by the news. Has YH been to a urologist yet? There may be something they can do for him. Best of luck to you.

    This, and I'm so sorry :( I can't imagine getting that kind of news.

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  • so sorry for your news.  i'll be praying for you and your family.
  • I am so sorry, wishing you guys the best. 
  • I am so sorry.. I hope in the future you are able to seek treatment.
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  • Oh my goodness.  It's so terrible that you got the wrong news first.  I'm so sorry.  I do hope that in the future you two are able to explore other options.  Good luck to you.  **hugs**
  • I'm so sorry to hear this news - best wishes to you and your husband in this difficult time, and moving forward.
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  • I'm very sorry to hear this. MH also had a zero sperm count when we started, due to a pituitary tumor causing low testosterone. His urologist prescribed him Novarel hcg shots and after 6 months his count improved to the low side of normal. We are still working to improve it. It may be something you want to ask about. Good luck with whatever you decide. :)
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this.  I can't imagine getting this news, I don't know what to say.  I wish you all the best in the future, whatever that may entail for you.
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  • tears.....so sorry to hear those words....best of luck to you and yours
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