that because i have DD and now we are having a boy that we are done? it has only been 2 days and i am already tired of hearing...'oh, good for you, 1 of each!', 'now you have your perfect pair!', and 'well now you don't have to try for a 3rd!'
seriously? since when is the rest of the world so knowing in our plans?? i just find it annoying. i want 3 and DH says 2 is good....he says we will see how it is with 2 and if i would be able to handle a 3rd then we will discuss it. i am SAHM and he is a firefighter that works 24 hr shifts and then works his 2nd job on the days he is off...so i think this is a fair agreement.
i just don't think the sex of our children should determine the plans for the size of our family. maybe it is just me.