Pregnant after a Loss

I am numb and shaking....Good bye

I had gone to the ER on Monday night after my light pink spotting. They claimed to have seen the HB on little Sprout. I didn't see it. I went to followup today at my OB/GYN so I could go back to work. We had an u/s and no HB and no movement. Sprout had stopped growing at 8w5d (last Friday). I go in for my d&c tonight. My heart is broken. Then, to top things off, the hospital called and the lady was telling me all about her daughter and how she has a 4 year old and had 2 m/c and is now pregnant. WTH! Seriously!? You are calling to confirm my d&c and you tell me this? Wow. I will be complaining about her.

I wish you ladies the best of luck.

I have short term memory loss. Do not take it personally if I do not remember you right away.
No longer trying to conceive at all.
BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
 BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
 Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
 Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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Re: I am numb and shaking....Good bye

  • I'm so very sorry (((hugs)))
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  • Oh Jes I am so sorrry. My heart is breaking for you! Please let me know if I can do anything for you.

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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. ((hugs)) I would complain about that lady too. So sorry you had to listen to that. 
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    1/2/11 BFP: Natural MC at 6w,2d
    Dx: Compound Heterozygous MTHFR (A & C copies)

    3/12/11 BFP: Hoping 3rd time is the charm! EDD 11/20


  • Oh no, that is very sad. I am so sorry you are going through this, and that you had to deal with such an insensitive woman on top of it. Huge (((HUGS)))

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  • I am so very sorry.
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  • jertiejertie
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    Oh no!!!  Sweetie, I am so, so sorry and absolutely heartbroken for you.  (((BIG HUGE HUGS)))

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  • I am so sorry.  *hugs*
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  • So sorry to hear this (((((huge hugs)))))
    BFP 7/27/10, no hb discovered 9/3/10, natural m/c 9/17/10
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  • I'm so sorry. ((HUGS))
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  • i'm so sorry you're going through this, clearly that "nurse" needs sensitivity training. hope all goes as well as it can tonight....
    BFP #1: 1/27/11, mc 3/17/11 at 9w2d, baby measured at 8w3d, no heartbeat BFP #2: 5/13/11; beta #1: 382, beta #2: 7842. heartbeat: 103 at 6 weeks; 146 at 7 weeks, 165 at 9 weeks, 173 at 12 weeks, 158 at 16 weeks. BabyFruit Ticker
  • I am so so sorry for your loss.  If you are still in Omaha, I can't recommend Methodist Hospital System enough.  They were amazing after Bryce's death, and you deserve no less.  (((Huge Hugs))))
    BFP #1 - Twin B lost at 5w
    Bryce Addison  I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, as long as I'm living my baby you'll be.
    Our baby boy was born sleeping on 9.17.10. He was 19w1d.
    BFP #2 - Twin B lost at 4w
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    BFP #4 - Lost at 4w
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  • quezzoquezzo
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I'm also sorry that lady is a complete idiot. I hope you are back here soon. 
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    Missed m/c 11w2d on April 3, 2010; natural m/c at 6w on July 17, 2010; and natural m/c at 4w on Oct. 7, 2011

  • Oh hon I am so so sorry you have to go through this and for that asshat and her insensitivity!! You and in my T&Ps!!
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  • I?m so sorry you?re going through this :-( Sending you huge hugs

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    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
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  • I am SO sorry. That lady is ridiculous.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this!     Definitely complain on that woman!
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  • I'm so so sorry! Tons of hugs to you!
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  • I am so terribly sorry for your loss.  (((big hugs)))

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    BFP #4 5.6.11 - 13dpo: hcg 68, p 16.3; 16dpo: hcg 211,
    p16.6; 18dpo: hcg 416, p 15.6; 25dpo: hcg 6,007
    DS born 1/30/12
    BFP #5 4.28.13 - LO due 1/4/14

  • ambs21ambs21
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    I'm so very sorry.  Many T&P your way.
    DD Sophie born 6/10/09 via emergency c-section;
    Missed M/C of Twins 11/29/10 D&C 12/2/10; DD Audrey born 1/18/12 via scheduled RCS

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  • OatoaOatoa
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    I am so sorry!  My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.  And if I lived anywhere near NE I would come and hurt that lady for you!!!!

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  • I am so so very sorry!
    DS Born 10/05/99 DSS Born 7/11/95 BFP 05/11/10 - Missed M/C, D&C 06/23/10 BFP 8/3/2010 - Ectopic, Methotrexate 8/17/10 BFP 1/27/11- Please God let this heart beat strong. Beta1 17dpo-314 Beta2 20dpo-883 Beta3 22dpo-1861 Beta4 25dpo-5918 DS2 Born 10/07/99 "I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he shall be given over to the LORD." 1Sam1v24to28.
  • I'm so incredibly sorry!
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  • MrsAtchMrsAtch
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    I am so sorry you are going through this again. I will be sending healing thoughts and prayers your way.
    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
    Please, please, please. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    BFP#1 May 17, 2008
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  • I'm so very, very sorry.  ((Big HUGS)) 
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    BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
    BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12

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  • vlong4vlong4
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))
    BFP jan10/11 - mc at 5 weeks 3 days.


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