January 2012 Moms

CP: SEX!

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Re: CP: SEX!

  • I won't lie because of our losses I am scared to right now
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    I won't lie because of our losses I am scared to right now

    Me, too.

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  • You listed it, but just had to say that we're definitely waiting until I'm not bleeding anymore!!! I'm not in the mood to begin with, having this lovely dark brown grossness coming out of me, and it also worries me that I AM bleeding, so I've put myself on pelvic rest. :) I sit and relax as much as I can -- which during the day is near impossible (I teach 2nd grade). 
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  • My DH left for 2 weeks, and gets home on Friday. So we haven't had sex since the night before he left.
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  • H is actually the one who said he wasn't comfortable having sex until after our first appointment. I talked him in to having sex last weekend, but it definitely wasn't like our usual sessions. I'll be glad when the Dr. tells him sex is ok!
  • I voted SS...my DH is the one who is freaked out about it right now...though I am okay with that at the moment since I am mostly too tired at night lately...
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  • I am just not in the mood, except for monday morning! I woke up at 5:00 am and was like ok.. NOW! haha other than that my thoughts have been ew dont touch me! I feel bad for DH
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  • My acupuncturist said "absolutely not" for the first trimester.  She said there is no reason to risk it.  My OB said it was fine. 



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    My acupuncturist said "absolutely not" for the first trimester.  She said there is no reason to risk it.  My OB said it was fine. 
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  • I did special snow flake. 

     Sex has been odd, its like I use to have a higher sex drive than DH. Now, its like he wants to go at it like a rabbit and I do to, but at completely different times. When he's turned on, I'm off, when I'm hot he's freezing. And I mean, to the point that neither can get the other in the mood. And then by the time the other is in the mood, the other is totally off. 

    Soooooooo Frustrating!!!!  

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  • DH is frustrated with me right now, because not only has he had to make his own dinner the last 3 nights, he hasn't been getting any either.  He's understanding but frustrated. I just don't feel like it when I'm feeling so crappy.
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    I won't lie because of our losses I am scared to right now

    I was scared as well...so I just jumped in the deep end, and did it like the same day I got the BFP. That made it easier to do it again, for some reason. ;)

    I don't blame anyone at all for being scared and deciding against it...I just know I'm the type of person that if I didn't just do it right away, I'd let the fear build up and we'd end up going the entire time without it. And that's a looooong time without sex.

    Oh, and there's the added benefit that it feels even more phenomenal now.  

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  • We are/have been. But not as often as before.

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  • I had to vote SS because my hubby is away at work & won't be home for another two weeks. Even though I know that it's safe, I probably will be a little cautious when we do...I guess I should start preparing myself from now! lol
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  • We've done it twice since BFP and we used to do it pretty often.  I just haven't been feeling it and DH is mostly supportive.  Hopefully I'll get my drive back soon.  It's weird that I miss it but still don't want to do it.
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  • I'm on modified bedrest which obviously includes pelvic rest - I'm not sad though, too scared after my m/c.

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    The poll needs another option:

    "No, have been ordered not to by the doctor b/c of threatened miscarriage diagnosis."

    Both semen and orgasms can cause uterine contractions.

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  • I have to reply to this one!!!

    Nope and Nope. When he is in the mood I am usually feel like crap or just puked! Not sexy!  And we did do it this week once and I started to bleed so now I am just too scared to. But he still wants to.

    I love my husband dearly but he is being so unsupportive about the body changes, mood changes and morning sickness. He gets mad when I lie down or don't finish the food that I started! I have no idea what to do about all of it especially the sex because we have a great sex life. 

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