i went in for a check-up this week. i really don't like this doctor and will be changing soon, thankfully. the last time i saw her, she told me my pg might be ectopic or i might be having a miscarriage (so i'm already a little biased against her). i'm 15 weeks and have gained 10 lbs so far. my first trimester was kinda heinous - barely had enough energy to lay on the couch at night after work, and with my food aversions, the only thing i could stomach was frozen pizza. so yeah, i was gonna gain a little more weight than i should have. but i do have to say that the weight i've gained is all boobs and belly. it's not in my face, my arms or legs, my back, nowhere else.
well, she tells me that gaining so much so early on is predisposing my baby to childhood obesity and diabetes. she wants me to gain 25 lbs total because i'm only 5'3", and if you do the math, at this rate, i'll gain 27 lbs total. she just made me feel like i'm not doing the right things for my baby and that i'm huge (i'm actually perfectly okay with gaining pg weight, but being someone who was anorexic at one point, i don't like being made to feel fat). i told her i'm eating fruits & vegies every day now and actually getting some activity. but she just kept harping on how my baby will be born with a chili dog in one hand and a cigar in the other (ok, maybe not her exact words).has anyone else had a similar weight gain and doesn't feel like they're absolutely obese?