Hey ladies don't post much but had a question and no pregnant friends to relate to.
I am in a wedding in June for a childhood friend. The bachelorette party is next weekend (May 14) when I will be 19 weeks. We are having the party in a town that is about 3hours from my house. Plans are to stay in a hotel, have a party bus etc. So my question is if you were the bride would you be mad if I came to the pre-party stuff, went to dinner (which starts at 8:00) and the first bar and then went home?
I know after dinner i will be exhausted anyway and I don't want to put a damper on the night or make someone feel obligated to hang out with me while everyone is drinking and dancing the night away. I didn't have any pregnant girls at mine but did have one friend who wasn't drinking bc she was trying to get pregnant. So should I tough it out like she did? I feel like trying to get pregnant and being 19 weeks pregnant are two different things but am so torn.