I haven't posted here before, but I should start. I had DS in January, and his douchebag sperm donor hasn't been in the picture since last June. (a whole different story for later). He wasn't there for the baby's birth, and hasn't even bothered to call/text/email or even ask by word of mouth about his son. He's not on the birth certificate and I'm not collecting child support.
My question is this: if I don't file for sole custody, will it come back to me later? If I file for sole custody, how likely is a judge to grant it (seeing as I never called the police when he was harrassing me)? I really do NOT want this loser to have any rights to my child, he hasn't done anything for him, and was physically abusive at the beginning of my pregnancy... hence my lack of collecting child support (plus, this loser makes far less than I do).
Any help you ladies can offer would be wonderful! TIA!