MIL & I had a conversation today about who was going to be in the delivery room with me. I told her I wanted DH, my mom & her to be in the room during delivery. She was overjoyed that I wanted her in there and it made me happy. Then DH chimes in and says he doesn't want anyone in there but him. I don't want to "dog" my hubby, but he hasn't been that helpful during my sickness, so I doubt he will be helpful during labor. My mom & MIL on the other hand will go out of their way to do anything I need/want them to. It is also the first grandchild on both sides. I feel that since I am the one pushing the baby out, I should get the final say on who I want in there. DH says its "his baby too", but I feel that comes into play once the baby is actually born, in which I absolutely think his input is just as important as mine.