My husband and I have a wonderful relationship, but I have an issue that is a bit touchy. My husband has decided that he really wants to name our baby after his father/mother. We don't yet know the sex of our baby, but the issue is.... his parents have treated me horribly for the 12 years we have been together. Both him and his brother are named after their grandfathers so it's like their tradition. My husband and his father don't even really get along and I think in my heart my husband wants to do this to try to mend fences. As for his mother, well he sees her as a saint. I really don't feel comfortable with this, but I really don't want to hurt his feelings.