Ok so DH and I have been talking a ton about starting to TTC for #2 lately and I really though we had finally made up our minds that I was going to get my IUD out (on the 13th) and then all the sudden DH pulls a wild card on me and says that he wants to take a trip to Europe next year, which I'm all for, but if we get pregnant when we want to I'll either be VERY pregnant or have a very new baby, both of which would mean no vacation. Well I thought maybe he wasn't so serious about doing a vacation instead of a baby, but when I brought it up again this morning, not even mentioning the vacation, just if he really felt we were ready he automatically went back to the Europe trip.
Now I'm totally conflicted. I would love to take a nice long special trip with DH and I know he feels the need to do things like this before we have a big family and it's impossible to do it again until we're retired, but I also don't really want our kids to be 3-4 years apart. I also feel kind of ridiculous, weighing a vacation and a baby against each other.
I'm really starting to think I should just get this IUD taken out and let nature take it's course because I feel no matter what something is going to get in the way of adding to our family. This is annoying. Anyone else feel me?