Hey there! I'm having a very hard battle and I need some input! My boyfriend of almost 3 years and I had a beautiful baby girl in October. He has 3 other children from a previous marriage that are ages 12, 10, and 7. We live in Iowa, and the other 3 kids live in North Carolina. He would like to move to NC in a couple of years because he thinks it's important for our Daughter to grow up with her sibilings. I agree but I don't want her to not know my family either!! ALL of my family is in Iowa and his family is scattered from NC to NY and Jersey. I know this is a HUGE decision not only for me but for our precious baby! I can't seem to shake the fact that I'm going to be letting someone down. I know I will feel out of place in NC because that's HIS territory (and his ex-wifes). I don't know how to sort all of this out in my mind, please leave me some helpful advice or words of wisdom. I GREATLY appreciate it!!!