I know I miss probably about the same as if I was still with the father but he wouldn't wait until after he posts it on Facebook to let me know. Or he wouldn't tell me he has been doing it for weeks when I thought it was his first time. I always....ALWAYS...tell him when he does some thing new. This asswipe tells me last.
I hate having the father semi active in my sons life. Its not fair he gets all the easy stuff.
P.S. Sorry. My ex just posts major news about or son all over his FB before even considering telling the mother.