How do you deal with a over bearing and SENSITIVE mom without hurting her feelings?
I just recently found out that my mom expects that she will be in the delivery room when lo is born and THEN staying with us after the lo is born. No, no, no, no, NOOOO. I don't want anyone but DH with me in the delivery room and I really don't want people at my house the first few days afterward either. When she was talking about this I literally started sweating. Just the thought stressed me out so much I couldn't stay on the phone with her. I love my mom but she has always been easier to love from far away....know what I mean? Ha.
So, where to I go from here? How do I let her down gently? My hormones would let me tell everyone else to eff off but I just can't do that to my own mom. What would you ladies do?