something you can't stand? For example DH and I love the name Benjamin and my MIL told him she loves the name, and that she thinks she would call him "Jam" as her little nickname for him. I honestly can not stand the thought of her calling the kid that, and now i'm seriously considering not naming him that! LOL!
I told DH to tell her that's so stupid, (and he agrees with me) but doesn't want to hurt her feelings. and doesn't want to give her "name rules" she has to follow, which I can understand. She means well, and just wants a little "grandma" bond with the kid (her other grandson lives across the country so she never sees him) so I can appreciate that. But Jam? really? I mean can I live through that the rest of my life?