3 months doesn't seem to be the magical point for us. The girls are still both SO fussy the vast majority of the day! DD2 STTN but DD1 sleeps a 3 1/2 hour stretch and then is terrible to get back to sleep and wakes up multiple times from 3am-morning.
I have sitter coming 4 hrs/day 3 days per week and I can still barely get bottles washed, laundry done and get myself a shower without one or both screaming. And to top it off, DD1 seems to have a fear of strangers already. I didn't think it was possible, but she does this weird scream when she sees my dad who is out of town and the same scream for the sitter. She wouldn't even take her bottle from the sitter.
Am I doing something wrong? Is it the reflux that makes them "bad babies" as DH calls them? He told me he was in tears last night trying to get them to bed because they were both screaming... we are having such a hard time.