This I hope will be the first baby that I carry full term, I've miscarried before and it was awful. When others post about what they're going through it helps me know that it wasn't anything I did before and if it happens this time I'll have this board to relate to (and if all the amazing women on this board can have that happen I really know it isn't my fault). Honestly most people that are expecting in October probably don't know unless they've had some complication before and I would think that those who have, would understand that you can't just talk to everybody about it, the only place I can personally talk about any of my fears or past m/c is here.
I really hope that the ladies who have been posting about their problems will continue to, and I will continue to be respectful, and anyone who is not, well you need not open ANY October 2011 posts until March-April, there will be much less bad news then, but if you're on here for support I doubt you'll stop logging on because you would hate to lose the support and if you have a problem with bad news. well then you're making a mistake by even being here this early in pregnancy, why not just enjoy yours alone and let us all who need support from others (whether they have good news or bad) enjoy having someone to talk to during this SCARY AND DANGEROUS first trimester.
I send love to all my ladies who have lost and to all who have only experienced healthy pregnancy and to anyone who is new to this all, and no disrespect to anyone.