I can't believe I didn't see this board. I have a 3 year old and we've been trying for a sibling. It's been about 1 1/2 years of let's see what happens and 6 months of charting. I had a regular check up and pap a couple months ago and everything was normal. But since charting I've noticed short cycles and spotting a couple days before menstration. After some reading I think it's a short luteal phase. I'm going to see how long this cycle is and then make an appointment. I'm not sure what's next but I don't think I'm ready to down the road of fertility treatments.