I remember when my friend Regan had her first baby. You could tell she got annoyed when people said her daughter looked just like her husband -- which she did. However, as she turned 1 - 2, she now looks like her mom. Anyhow, at the time I couldn't understand why people saying that would bother her.
Now I get it!
We had our 3/4D ultrasound today (which was awesome). But...the baby looks just like my husband. She has his features, very noticeably. And it upset me! I think my husband is gorgeous, truly, and I can't really pin point why this bothers me so much but it does!
I know one of the reasons I am kind of upset is bc when we first told his mom we were pregnant, before we even know if the baby was a boy or girl, she said (several times) "Oh I hope the baby looks like BJ" (which is soo rude). So now I will have to hear even more how he looks like "his" side of the family.
But to be honest, the reason this bothers me goes deeper than that -- I just
don't know why. Anyone else feel the same way or can complete this sentence - I hope that baby looks like me or has some of my physical features because........