I know there are many posts about comments people get, but this one just hit me wrong. Its gross, rainy and cold here today and I wore an old bright blue, ridiculous looking, water-proof pull-over that will fit over my stomach. A co-worker intentionally stopped me to tell me that she "liked my outfit much better than the one I wore yesterday. The coat only buttoned at the top with my stomach hanging out just didn't look good." I thought she was kidding and made some remark that the expensive work coat I wore was too much to pay for again in a maternity style - and then she said "well, you can try thrift stores!" Then I realized she wasn't kidding!! AHHH- just needed to get that out - If I had a major physical disability or a bad haircut or had a visible mark in some way, it would be TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE to comment on it. Would you tell a co-worker you didn't like their outfit?? NO - BECAUSE ITS RUDE!!! Thing is, she is really nice (which is the exception where I work, so I am trying to see it as something she didn't mean to come out that way, but HOLY COW- what a thing to say!!