does you husband ever make you feel bad about not working.
We had a huge fight this morning because dh was cranky because he stayed up till 12:00 to help soothe ds (we are trying to drop a night feeding--- he stays up late anyway and I can count on my hand the number of times I've asked for help from 7 pm to 7 am with the kids-- I nurse so I don't mind getting up)
Well that pushed my buttons I couldn't let it go that I get up in the night and am the first one up during the day and he is complaining and he got over 7 1/2 hours of sleep (more than I've had in a row in 6 months)
he eventually said that I asked ofr it and it was my job because I was home and if I wasn't taking care of the night feedings and morning routine what was the poibnt of me taking a year off?
I hate that he always throws it in my face when he's mad
(I know he sounds like a real jerk... but we do have a good marriage and he is a good dad and husband I just hate like I feel he holds it over my head... like I should write a rent check