So my SIL had a baby back in June, which I think they got pregnant on purpose to beat my husband and me to begin with but we are past that. The other day we were asked if we had started picking out names yet. We have picked out our top boy and top girl names. Well when we told her the girl name "Bailey" my SIL jumps in and says "You cant take our name, we were going to name Josh that if he had been a girl!" Well this made me very mad because the whole time she was pregnant the only girl name we ever heard her say was "Isabelle" So i really do not believe she was thinking about the name we have picked out. Now it makes me want a girl so bad so that we can have the name.
Should we just over look her and do what we want or come up with another name? Has anyone else been in this situation?