H was laid off almost 3 weeks ago. Now he stays home during the day with DD. (She used to be with my parents while we worked.) He is really a great father and makes a big effort to keep her busy during the day with physical activities, reading, games, etc.
In these 3 weeks, she has gotten a black eye, a big bruise and a fat lip. She is a very active (and clumsy) kid so I expect a certain amount of bumps and bruises with her. However, these injuries are a bit more than the norm. I do understand that he can't be there to catch every single fall and she is always running, climbing and jumping.
I have tried to talk to him about it and he is very casual about it. I don't want to crush his ego (being laid off did a pretty good job of that), but I really need him to tell him to watch her more carefully and be a little more proactive when she is running around. Any suggestions on how to get him to take this more seriously?