We're working on no longer swaddling at night but this is very difficult. LO is not swaddled during naps during the day, only at night. I have tried to swaddle with one arm out, loosen the swaddle, etc - none of this works. Letting him CIO is a bust - I gave up last night after two solid hours of him screeching (which he *never* does.) Does anyone have suggestions other then the norm that have worked for them? If it makes a difference, we use a SwaddleMe. Anything is appreciated - tyia!