I've always thought that if I had children I would adopt. It was discussed b4 I married DH. He was on board. We started our fam earlier than planned and had LO in May of this yr. I would like to adopt a sister for him in the near future. How do you know when you are ready to start the adoption process? Did you save money first for a year? Did you both you and your spouse look at each other and just know? Or do you figure it out as you go once you get an adoption agent?