i know they say you can't spoil a newborn, but i think that's bull. LO will not go to sleep unless she is held or rocked in her bassinet, or most disturbing, unless there's a bottle in her mouth. we use a pacifier but there's no fooling her! i don't like this habit and it worries me... anyone else with a similar problem or advice on how to change it? other than letting her cry it out (last resort) TIA!