One of my good friends told me when we were pregnant with my DS that she someday wanted to name her DD (if she ever had one) Evelyn. She wasn't married at the time, but is now. She likely won't have children for several more years as she is in law school and will be working for a few years before her and DH will decide to have a little one. Fast forward, my DH and I were looking at names and Evelyn came up. I really like it, with the nickname Evie and I casually asked her over Facebook messenger what she would think if we decided to go with that name, if we even have a DD this time around. She got very upset and said that she would be 'really sad' if we used that name. Since then, she has been really distant and not talking to me at all. I saw she was online so I asked if she was upset with me and continued on with the really sad talk and would be disappointed. Am I being crazy?! I understand we are good friends, but she lives 3 states away and we see eachother maybe 3-4 times per year. Obviously this name is getting more popular and its not like I am willing to ruin a friendship over it, but seriously...you can't claim a name 5 years in advance!