So we have decided that during delivery only my DH and I will be in the room (besides the doctors and nurses ofcourse) but my MIL keeps mentioning how she would like to be in there. The reason we don't want any else in there is because I am only allowed to have 3 people in there with me. And ofcourse my husband is one. But between my sister, mother, and MIL, we decided there would just be too much drama to try and decide. My mom was upset and said that she saw all her other grandchildren born. My sister was upset and said well you may change your mind when you get in there. But my MIL....well this is her first grandbaby and I know she is very excited. But when I said I wanted it to be a moment just between my DH and myself, she keeps bringing up how she would love to be there to see her come out and all this stuff. Plus, my SIL got very mad and said her friend had her whole family in there with her. And when I said it wouldn't be fair she was like well your mom already has other grandchildren and it's just selfish. But my MIL came to the ultrasound where we found out the sex and what should have been a special bonding moment between my DH and myself just wasn't. So I've put my foot down and I'm not changing my mind. But am I being selfish? And how do I keep the peace?