My good friend has insisted on throwing my shower since I told her I was pregnant. I accepted without thinking much of it until the past couple of weeks as the shower date has gotten closer. She continues to make comments about how "we" can do this or "we" can decorate this way and I'm stuck thinking "what is this we business?" Isn't the point of being the expectant mom at the shower to basically show up and enjoy what the hostess has put together? We decided the shower would be at my house because she lives in a small apt and there wasn't really any other place to have it, now I'm wondering if that was my first mistake. Last week when I was talking to her she said "don't worry, I can come over and hlep you decorate before the shower" Maybe my expectations are out of whack and I'm being unreasonable but I kind of feel like it should be the other way around?? Also, I just got a voicemail from her where she went on and on about how she found these cute decorations and how we should start shopping for them soon. Does that mean she not only needs my help shopping (which I'm less than thrilled about) but also needs me to help cover the expense of decorations? Sorry for the rant but again am I being unrealistic or unreasonable?