I feel uncomfortable with the idea of having a shower for my baby after everyone was so generous at the showers that I had for dd just two years ago. Many of my friends have them for each of their children and that's totally fine, it's just not what I feel comfortable with. Although no one has offered yet, I would like to figure out how I would handle the situation if it arises. It also seems rude to turn someone's thoughtful offer down. So I'm conflicted as to whether I would go with what makes me feel comfortable or with not offending the person who offers... or is there an in between? Thoughts???