I talked with the vet, and she referred me to a Veterinary Behaviorist. I would like to think that this will help.
Thank you for all the comments, the nice ones and the not so nice ones. I am a big girl, I can take it.
Long story short, when I hear a dog bite, and then my kid screaming in pain with her hands over her face. I panic. You would do the same. I hope that we can keep the dog, and I am going to try to get the issue fixed.