Ok I just need to rant for a minute because I feel very upset and emotional (big surprise) about this.. My sister in law is pregnant too, about 8 weeks behind me.. and she is STILL smoking even though she is pregnant!! I am just totally shocked by this. I didnt think this kind of thing even happened anymore now that its so well known smoking causes damage to the baby! My inlaws think I'm weird and over reacting for being so upset about it. Saying "I smoked when i was pregnant with your husband and he turned out ok." !!!!!!!!???????? Seriously??? Why would someone's FIRST act as mother be to intentionally put your unborn child at serious risk!?!? ....UGH. That little one can't say "Hey mom i'd rather breathe oxygen than smoke. Can u please stop??" Pisses me off... I LOVE my inlaws but...we differ on children I guess.