3rd Trimester

Sex Post: Can You Orgasm Still?

DH and I have had a fairly stale sex life throughout this pregnancy. I do favors for him still, and when we do have sex, he usually does his thing and moves on. Trust me, this habit has raised many fights, but I finally settled on being content in the fact that he is not watching porn or going to strip clubs, and when we do have sex it is because he is attracted to me.

Now he has started to switch gears, being more sensual and wanting to turn me on. Last night he tried to get me to orgasm. I even took over, realizing what he was trying to do. All in all, we spent an hour and a half trying to get me to orgasm, with no results.

I am thoroughly disappointed. I realize there could have been a lot of contributors to the lack of climax--from not feeling pretty with my huge belly in the way, to be worried that he was losing interest the longer we tried. I understand any pressure on performance usually hinders it, and though I tried my best to drop it all, even with his patience and reassurance, I was still unable to perform. So now my thought is, will I be able to orgasm again? And is anyone else running into this problem?

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