I'm sorry - this is kind of long but I don't have anyone else to ask.... I was 11w last Tuesday when I went for our OB visit and they found our baby had no heartbeat. It was shocking, as I had no symptoms, no clue. The dr. sent us for bloodwork and said we'll look at your levels to make sure they're dropping over the next week and if we need to bring you in for a D&C, we'll talk about that later. So, I had some spotting which turned into light bleeding over the last week and the nurse called to let me know my levels are dropping. However, she said that since I am less than 12w they won't do a D&C bc of potential cervical damage, etc. I guess I'm ok with that, but my main problem is that no one has explained what I will experience, how long it will take, what I will see (this part scares me the most - will I see the baby? Does anyone know?). I have no idea how long this will take, when I get to see the doctor again, what's next. When she called yesterday after my third set of bloodwork came back, she basically said to get more blood next Monday and "we'll decide what to do then," which is EXACTLY what she said to me the last two phone calls. I was at work yesterday, so I couldn't really get into asking questions, but as the day wore on, I got kind of upset because she hasn't offered me any insight. She has only said I "might" (?!) see some bleeding. Really, I'm pretty sure its more involved than that. And, it seems like everyone on here has had d&c's, so I'm feeling very unprepared and scared right now as I wait this out. If anyone has had similar experiences that they could share, I would appreciate it.