I'll try to make this breif. DH told me last month that he wanted to take his annual golf trip to NC with a buddy before the baby comes and that the only weekend they could do it was this weekend. I wanted to be a cool wife and told him to go and have fun while he could but to make sure everything was refundable just in case. Well they decided to just save some money and do the golf weekend here instead. But I've been having a really rough week - a couple bouts of contractions, and generally miserable so I figured they would be reasonable with their boys weekend. Instead they've decided to play golf all day today, tomorrow, and Sunday and they went out for drinks last night, tonight, and plan to go again tomorrow night, leaving me home with our toddler absolutely miserable. He said he wasn't goign to go out every night but now he is and I am really upset that its a 24/7 thing. On top of that he's supposed to be finishing our basement (has had a year and a half to do it and missed every deadline and I wanted it done before having the baby) and it's not. the carpet people are even waiting on him to finish. AND he has no sympathy that it generally sucks for me not to be able to get out and have fun myself.
I feel like I could outrightly be pissed but I did agree weeks ago that he could do the golf weekend so I screwed myself kind of. Am I being unreasonable? I didn't know I'd feel this crappy when I agreed but he's holding me to it 100% with no compromising at all. And this is a buddy he sees all the time anyway!