Even though I feel that it is too early to be thinking about it, my mother is thinking about it, which means I have to think about it. My mother wants to throw me a baby shower, which I'm grateful for, but she doesn't want to listen to anything I have to say about it. Most baby showers I've been to have been in a backyard or someones house. It's really casual and not over the top (with the exception of my cousin, but my aunt is loaded, so different story). My mother would rather have the shower closer to my cousin's, in a restaurant or a hotel, very fancy with centerpieces and the whole nine yards. This is not what I want and not my style at all. She won't listen to me though. Should I just suck it up and be grateful?